Too good to be true! Love & positivity rather than fear & anxiety.
As you know I came to you as a last resort as I was having extreme difficulty with my daughter over the last three months.
In a way, it’s a good thing that I have written you weeks after as I have had enough time to prove without a shadow of a doubt that your sessions worked ! At first I thought, it was too good to be true, but slowly as we started falling into our everyday way of life at home, your advice was put to the test.
My daughter before she came to you, was afraid and angry. But with this new insight and your sessions came a wisdom and a calm that was not there before.
She began talking to me again like we use to do ,years ago. I started to fully understand where her fears and anxiety was coming from . And she mine. And with this new awareness I could stop myself ( most of the time ) from opening my mouth and setting the triggers off.
One of the most startling changes came from her attitude towards her terribly un kept room. I know it sounds stupid, and I know it might be something small on the larger scale of things but to me it wasn’t. My daughters room was like the enemy to me. It was such a thorn in my side that I had to practically numb myself whenever I passed it, or opened the door just to keep sane.
Years of harping to my daughter to keep her room clean and having her roar at me like a lion to get out and then forcing myself to shut up caused me such anxiety I can not tell. Would you believe it had been clean for weeks ? She is not staying awake all night in sheer defiance of me. She has become focused once again and wants to do well at school and study medicine once more.
I felt I had lost my daughter and now she was back again. But to be truthfull I can see now that there were signs that she was trying to reach out to me, but because I did not know what to do, I dismissed them and it just got worse.
But most of all , I have changed my way of thinking. I wake up positive, and thank the Universe/God for all that I have and will have. And when daily challenges meet me during the course of the day , and I feel anxious etc . I let those emotions GO !. I have become much more attuned to my surroundings , to my intuitive self, to people and what is positive and what is toxic / negative, in my life.
I can see now, how my old way of thinking affected what I attracted to me and I see similarities in other peoples lives , as well. I have learned to trust myself much more now, and this is mainly what is giving me a better quality of life.
When you told me that this would improve other aspects of my life , I doubted it at first. but you know there is a saying that you can’t lie to yourself. And I have to admit, it has improved my life because I now see things in a whole new light. So does my daughter.
I have become more assertive in expecting people to treat me right and they notice it and respond accordingly. My fears and anxiety are not the driving force in my life anymore. Love and Positive thinking has filled it’s place. And most of all I look forward to living a good, long life. Thank you ! Susan.
